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<blockquote data-quote="Bryan Vining" data-source="post: 377953" data-attributes="member: 7628">A different takeThe problem here is that Rick isn't making himself clear, even though he thinks he has.&nbsp; Rick is doing something to allow the behavior to go on.&nbsp; My guess, knowing no more than I do, is that he isn't saying something as soon as the hitting on begins, thereby letting Ken know that he will tolerate some amount of this behavior.&nbsp; What should you do?&nbsp; Well, if you wish advice, I'd suggest to you that you have a conversation with Rick, and then one with Ken.&nbsp; Let each of them know what is bothering you about his behavior.&nbsp; Be open and honest and welcome anything they say.&nbsp; Pass judgement on none of it, and try to be as neutral as you can.&nbsp; Then, urge them to talk with one another.&nbsp; The other option is to boot one of them from the group, since that will be the eventual outcome if this is dealt with surreptitiously.&nbsp; Good luck!</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Bryan Vining, post: 377953, member: 7628"] [b]A different take[/b] The problem here is that Rick isn't making himself clear, even though he thinks he has. Rick is doing something to allow the behavior to go on. My guess, knowing no more than I do, is that he isn't saying something as soon as the hitting on begins, thereby letting Ken know that he will tolerate some amount of this behavior. What should you do? Well, if you wish advice, I'd suggest to you that you have a conversation with Rick, and then one with Ken. Let each of them know what is bothering you about his behavior. Be open and honest and welcome anything they say. Pass judgement on none of it, and try to be as neutral as you can. Then, urge them to talk with one another. The other option is to boot one of them from the group, since that will be the eventual outcome if this is dealt with surreptitiously. Good luck! [/QUOTE]

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