Ath'kethin
Elder Thing
The first Kickstarter I backed was Timothy Brown's "Dragon Kings" in 2014. Since then I've backed 90-someting more.It is a breath of fresh air for me to read this. I have the same attitude towards Kickstarters. When did you start backing Kickstarter projects? I think my first was the first or maybe second year after it went live. I think the old ethos is dying out as it is being used more and more (at least with TTRPGs) as a pre-order system, which I think has lead to a whole new cohort of backers who have very different expectations and often toxic reactions when things do go well with a project. I've always treated it as either a self-interested charitable donation or an investment. In the former, I don't really expect or care if I get much out of it and for the later, I don't invest what I can't afford to lose (and "afford" here also means not getting upset enough to doom scroll the updates and comments or waste time with angry comments).
Out of all of those, there are only two I don't expect to ever fulfill. Both are cases where I backed them to show support to the creators and while it would be nice to actually get the rewards, I don't lose sleep about it. Though it's crazy to read some of the comments where people have lost their minds. Both are cases where the creators just got overwhelmed by the response to their project and just couldn't handle it, but some people are just vicious about the situation.
And that's not counting a couple of long-delayed projects that I'm 99% certain WILL deliver. But folks are especially nasty about one of those, too.
I personally don't have a problem using crowdfunding as a pre-order system, especially if I can get exclusive or discounted stuff that way. But I also don't invest money I can't afford to lose, and in many cases I'll just wait til the project somes to retail and order it from my FLGS. I like doing that because it helps to keep my FLGS in business too.