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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Dark Jezter" data-source="post: 2721496" data-attributes="member: 1015">As usual, Rel hits the nail right on the head.In your attempts to find a mate, you will be rejected by a fair share of women.  Some will already have boyfriends or husbands, while others simply won't be interested.  Yes, rejection sucks, but the brief period of disappointment you'll feel from being turned down is insignificant compared to the shame you'll feel if you never even try.  If a girl you ask out says no or says that she considers you a "good friend", forget about her and look for someone else.  Don't continue trying to win her over after she's turned you down because that almost never works, and the odds are that you'll just end up looking like a loser at best or a creepy stalker at worst.And even when you do find women to go out with you, it's almost certain that you'll have a few relationships that simply won't work out.  New relationships are usually based on physical attraction more than anything else, and often when one person in the relationship spends a little time with the other and learns more about their personality, they discover that they really aren't as interested in the other person as they thought.  Still, if you hang in there and don't give up, your efforts will eventually pay off.</blockquote>