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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Kanegrundar" data-source="post: 2727844" data-attributes="member: 3913">How far away are you from a larger town?  Maybe getting out and socializing in a different neck of the woods would do your game some good.  I'm from a town of 12,000.  Most of the women in town where either already taken, I had gone out with and got dumped or I dumped, I had shot down, or they had shot me down.  Not a lot of options there.  I started hanging out in other towns nearby and I started getting more dates.  Nothing of any consequence, but I had a good time nonetheless.Either that, or try an online dating service.  That's how I met my fiancee (through Match.com).  True, there are a LOT of freaks on those things, but it may be the ticket to start off slow with some emails or IM's with a gal that sounds interesting instead of approaching a gal cold.  Plus, you'd be more like to find someone with a background that fits with you better.  If you go that route, be ready to run screaming a few times.  Lord knows I met some pretty awful gals that way, but I also met a lot of cool gals also some from my area I had never seen before.Edit: TB's advice about aiming low and working up is golden.  Let other women see you with someone under your league.  It's amazing how it works.</blockquote>