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<blockquote data-quote="DarrenGMiller" data-source="post: 2541977" data-attributes="member: 23174">My houserule is that if you leave your PC with me or one of the players who is coming to the session, you have equal chance for death, XP, treasure, etc. as if you were present.&nbsp; If you do not want your PC to be played by either myself or another player and you don't leave it, then you get nothing, but cannot be killed (assumed rear guard duty, supply run, or similar).I can't understand forgetting about her character unless that PC is just useless to the party.&nbsp; At any rate, &quot;done bun can't be undone.&quot; Apologize and expect the same from her.&nbsp; You goofed, you admitted it, she was upset by what she perceived as you breaking a commitment to her to play her PC.&nbsp; You were upset by her ultimatum, which she probably felpt she needed to give, since she felt her trust in you had been betrayed.&nbsp; Not that it justifies her behavior, mind you.&nbsp; However, if she gives another ultimatum, I would consider it a pattern and treat her in kind by giving her the ultimatum that if she holds to that ultimatum, she is welcome to leave the game.DM</blockquote>

[QUOTE="DarrenGMiller, post: 2541977, member: 23174"] My houserule is that if you leave your PC with me or one of the players who is coming to the session, you have equal chance for death, XP, treasure, etc. as if you were present. If you do not want your PC to be played by either myself or another player and you don't leave it, then you get nothing, but cannot be killed (assumed rear guard duty, supply run, or similar). I can't understand forgetting about her character unless that PC is just useless to the party. At any rate, "done bun can't be undone." Apologize and expect the same from her. You goofed, you admitted it, she was upset by what she perceived as you breaking a commitment to her to play her PC. You were upset by her ultimatum, which she probably felpt she needed to give, since she felt her trust in you had been betrayed. Not that it justifies her behavior, mind you. However, if she gives another ultimatum, I would consider it a pattern and treat her in kind by giving her the ultimatum that if she holds to that ultimatum, she is welcome to leave the game. DM [/QUOTE]

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