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<blockquote data-quote="AFGNCAAP" data-source="post: 4297778" data-attributes="member: 871">Tricky question.All of the other players (&amp; the DM) have complained about his behavior (primarily the items I listed). However, almost everyone in the group has known each other since high schools &amp;/or are good friends (or friends of friends, etc.). IMO, things have not improved over time, and it's frankly getting old.The game goes on at the DM's house, so who's allowed to show is based on who he allows over. There's no chance that the problem player will get disinvited unless he causes enough problems for the DM that the DM gets fed up with him and kicks him out. (For example, one former player in this group is a player that I don't have issues with but the DM does: he plays in my Friday games, though he's not welcome at the DM's house or for the DM's games anymore [currently].)IMO, the DM has the patience of a saint putting up with this guy. However, I frankly have had enough of his antics, and don't care to put up with them anymore.&nbsp; [SPOILER]My ex has said that many of them are nonconfrontational, and deal with things covertly or indirectly overall, or just endure such things rather than put their collective feet down on the issue (she thought that I should have left that group years ago, really).[/SPOILER]I hate to say this (because I consider the DM and other players there good friends), but I think I should have bowed out &amp; stayed out of that gaming group a while ago. It's not a nice thought, but it's one I've had.I may go back to that group if the problem player doesn't attend anymore (at all), but I highly doubt that will ever happen. So, I'm just going to move on and not look back.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="AFGNCAAP, post: 4297778, member: 871"] Tricky question. All of the other players (& the DM) have complained about his behavior (primarily the items I listed). However, almost everyone in the group has known each other since high schools &/or are good friends (or friends of friends, etc.). IMO, things have not improved over time, and it's frankly getting old. The game goes on at the DM's house, so who's allowed to show is based on who he allows over. There's no chance that the problem player will get disinvited unless he causes enough problems for the DM that the DM gets fed up with him and kicks him out. (For example, one former player in this group is a player that I don't have issues with but the DM does: he plays in my Friday games, though he's not welcome at the DM's house or for the DM's games anymore [currently].) IMO, the DM has the patience of a saint putting up with this guy. However, I frankly have had enough of his antics, and don't care to put up with them anymore. [SPOILER]My ex has said that many of them are nonconfrontational, and deal with things covertly or indirectly overall, or just endure such things rather than put their collective feet down on the issue (she thought that I should have left that group years ago, really).[/SPOILER] I hate to say this (because I consider the DM and other players there good friends), but I think I should have bowed out & stayed out of that gaming group a while ago. It's not a nice thought, but it's one I've had. I may go back to that group if the problem player doesn't attend anymore (at all), but I highly doubt that will ever happen. So, I'm just going to move on and not look back. [/QUOTE]

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