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<blockquote data-quote="ezo" data-source="post: 9292646" data-attributes="member: 7037866">Maybe, maybe not? How do I know what you do?Yet you seem fine with judging people here who decide that part of the fun for them in playing D&amp;D is to take the hobby seriously.And, just so you know, the players who say they want to join in, participate, etc. and choose not to engage with the group and the game at a level so it won't detract from other participants' fun, I do call lazy when I know they could, but choose not to. Or perhaps you prefer I call them disrespectful of the other players? Either way, I would call them lazy in other aspects of their lives as well, even if they didn't play D&amp;D.FWIW, &quot;lazy&quot; is a subjective term. What I consider lazy someone else might consider committed. Regardless, if their behaviors is detracting from the fun of the general group, they need to either step up, or perhaps find a different game, different group, or different hobby. Whatever works for them. (as I said before).Calling someone &quot;lazy&quot; is not calling them a name, it is categorizing them. It is the difference between knowing someone could do better, says they want to, but then they don't follow through, and someone who actually struggles.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="ezo, post: 9292646, member: 7037866"] Maybe, maybe not? How do I know what you do? Yet you seem fine with judging people here who decide that part of the fun for them in playing D&D is to take the hobby seriously. And, just so you know, the players who say they want to join in, participate, etc. and choose not to engage with the group and the game at a level so it won't detract from other participants' fun, I do call lazy when I know they could, but choose not to. Or perhaps you prefer I call them disrespectful of the other players? Either way, I would call them lazy in other aspects of their lives as well, even if they didn't play D&D. FWIW, "lazy" is a subjective term. What I consider lazy someone else might consider committed. Regardless, if their behaviors is detracting from the fun of the general group, they need to either step up, or perhaps find a different game, different group, or different hobby. Whatever works for them. (as I said before). Calling someone "lazy" is not calling them a name, it is categorizing them. It is the difference between knowing someone could do better, says they want to, but then they don't follow through, and someone who actually struggles. [/QUOTE]

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