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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Claude Raines" data-source="post: 483448" data-attributes="member: 416">Let me reiterate other people in saying that you should pick out the ring together. You can still surprise her on when and where you ask. If you want to buy a diamond, shop around. Really shop around. And take the time to learn about diamonds. If you go to some place like Zales (or other chain diamond stores), you might be able to get bigger diamonds cheaper, but they will be lower quality. Get her a higher quality diamond even if it is smaller. This is something that she will hopefully have for the rest of her life, so make sure it's something she'll always want to look at.Another thing you can do is design the ring yourself. Look at the rings out there and find what you like in ring designs. It can be hard to find one ring that has everything you want, but a good jeweler can make any design you desire - and it doesn't cost extra. If you do design the ring, have the jeweler get your approval on a wax mold of the ring before he casts it.As far as money is concerned, don't spend more than you feel comfortable. I spent almost two months salary, but there is no reason for you to spend a similar amount. If she loves you, she won't want you in bankruptcy court. Finally, be sure you get the ring insured, either through the store you bought it or through renters/homeowners insurance.</blockquote>