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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Dougal DeKree" data-source="post: 1815170" data-attributes="member: 1353">Thanx, Carpe DM, for caring - i tried very thoroughly to use no gender-specific words in my starting post, simply to exclude gender from this discussion. So, the player in question is a woman and thus i am not really too worried about those "advances".  <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f609.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=";)" title="Wink    ;)"  data-smilie="2"data-shortname=";)" />As an update on the issue: We used last mondays session, when said player was absent due to family reasons, to talk about what to do. The thing said player seems to want is to be in the prime spotlight most of the time - to be adored even. So ok, we will throw in a short Starwars-Interlude. Until now noone ever was allowed to play a Jedi. New she will be a Jedi. A known one even. And we will be the "helping hands". If during the running of those few evenings the old behaviour springs up even once, it's "byebye, mr(s).jedi!".If not, we have identified the real issue and _then_ we will ask her, how this situation can be coped with. Since, of course, others want to be the heroes, too - that's why you play RPG's after all (IMO villains are heroes, too...in a way). I'll keep you informed.Dougal</blockquote>