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<blockquote data-quote="DonTadow" data-source="post: 2386058" data-attributes="member: 22622">No one likes to be singled out and accused of cheating in front of everyone.&nbsp; By sending a group email to everyone you were singling that player out, considering he was the only one using dice that you found questionable.&nbsp; You sent the email because of him, and he knows that and he probably felt you were trying to &quot;out him&quot; in front of everyone.&nbsp; You should have communicated with the player one on one.&nbsp; That's the best way to handle situations with the group.&nbsp; I have a player in my campaign whom uses japanese dice.&nbsp; I can't read japanese dice and I wanted her to stop, despite the fact that these are her favorite d6s.&nbsp; If I would have sent out an email saying, American numbered dice only, she would have been irate.&nbsp; The guys reaction is typical when someone is confronted.&nbsp; True its immature but not out of the&nbsp; ordinary.&nbsp;&nbsp; It's easier to say &quot;hey I can't read your dice, I really would like it if you used another set of dice for my game.&nbsp; It would help me facilitate the game easier&quot;.&nbsp; IF he still acts like a but he's obviously cheating.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="DonTadow, post: 2386058, member: 22622"] No one likes to be singled out and accused of cheating in front of everyone. By sending a group email to everyone you were singling that player out, considering he was the only one using dice that you found questionable. You sent the email because of him, and he knows that and he probably felt you were trying to "out him" in front of everyone. You should have communicated with the player one on one. That's the best way to handle situations with the group. I have a player in my campaign whom uses japanese dice. I can't read japanese dice and I wanted her to stop, despite the fact that these are her favorite d6s. If I would have sent out an email saying, American numbered dice only, she would have been irate. The guys reaction is typical when someone is confronted. True its immature but not out of the ordinary. It's easier to say "hey I can't read your dice, I really would like it if you used another set of dice for my game. It would help me facilitate the game easier". IF he still acts like a but he's obviously cheating. [/QUOTE]

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