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Forked Thread: DMs - No one cares how long you worked (was: Rant -- GM Control...)
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<blockquote data-quote="FireLance" data-source="post: 4650312" data-attributes="member: 3424"><p>Actually, I'm coming at it from a slightly different perspective, namely, whether it is wrong if I don't even appreciate the work in the first place. There seems to be an argument that even if you don't like the work, you should appreciate the fact that he put effort into it. All I'm saying is that while I may be polite about it, and I may even intellectually acknowledge his efforts and good intentions, I reserve the right not to feel one iota of thankfulness. (I might actually feel thankful regardless, but that's because I'm a big softie.)</p><p></p><p>A related question is: how do you react to a well-intentioned bumbler who wants to help, but keeps making things worse? Similarly, how would you react to the ardent proselytizer, whether of a religion, a product, or a game system, who really thinks that whatever he's promoting is going to benefit you, even though you've already decided that you don't like it? As with the DM who has spent a lot of effort in preparing for a game that I don't want to play, I reserve the right to be privately unappreciative of their efforts regardless of how much work they have put in, or how well-intentioned they are.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="FireLance, post: 4650312, member: 3424"] Actually, I'm coming at it from a slightly different perspective, namely, whether it is wrong if I don't even appreciate the work in the first place. There seems to be an argument that even if you don't like the work, you should appreciate the fact that he put effort into it. All I'm saying is that while I may be polite about it, and I may even intellectually acknowledge his efforts and good intentions, I reserve the right not to feel one iota of thankfulness. (I might actually feel thankful regardless, but that's because I'm a big softie.) A related question is: how do you react to a well-intentioned bumbler who wants to help, but keeps making things worse? Similarly, how would you react to the ardent proselytizer, whether of a religion, a product, or a game system, who really thinks that whatever he's promoting is going to benefit you, even though you've already decided that you don't like it? As with the DM who has spent a lot of effort in preparing for a game that I don't want to play, I reserve the right to be privately unappreciative of their efforts regardless of how much work they have put in, or how well-intentioned they are. [/QUOTE]
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