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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Werebat" data-source="post: 5367369" data-attributes="member: 40158">All of this is good advice.  I agree with Vegepygmy's last post as well.  I've been through a divorce, and it isn't pretty (and mine wasn't really all that bad, in the final analysis).  The situation the OP describes is a red flag.  Ignore red flags at your own risk.Look at your parents' relationship.  Was your mom always nagging your dad to "grow up" and change in other ways?  We have a tendency to try to repeat the relationships we grew up watching, or at least to ignore the inherent problems they had until it's very late in the game.My GF (who is more than a GF at this point as we live together and have children, and would probably be married if either of us felt the need for it and/or didn't enjoy being iconoclasts) doesn't play RPGs, but gives me a lot of freedoms in general, as I give her.  We wouldn't have it any other way.  The kind of behavior you are describing, OP, is indicative of a host of other issues that are not going to stay buried forever.   - Ron   ^*^</blockquote>