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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Mishihari Lord" data-source="post: 5371674" data-attributes="member: 128">Responding to the OP without reading the rest of the thread (sorry) ...You guys need to work this out between you _before_ you get engaged.  To me, getting engaged then married means "I totally love you and accept you exactly the way you are."  It's extremely unfair to get married and then tell your spouse "Now I need you to change."  If you think this could happen and you both feel strongly on the matter, work it out now or it could be a disaster.As for growing up and gaming, I'm 40, happily married, two kids, and I'd love to game if I had time but I don't.  My wife thought it was a pretty weird activity, but since she trusts my judgment she thought it must have some redeeming quality.  Then I ran her on a solo adventure (after we'd been married a couple of years) and she decided it was a pretty fun game.In truth my motivation to play has gone down over the years, but not because there's anything childish about playing.  Part of it is just getting busier.  The other part is that when I was a kid I used to play to do cool things I couldn't do in real life.  Now that I'm an adult with a decent income I can and do go do cool things in real life.  Maybe I can't visit another planet in RL, but I lived in a third world country for a couple of years and that's close enough for all practical purposes.Anyway hope you saw something useful in my rambling.  Good luck.</blockquote>

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