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Message: <blockquote data-quote="fusangite" data-source="post: 2699802" data-attributes="member: 7240">Can you give us an example of mixed signals? Otherwise I'm inclined to side with Turanil here.Fortunately you don't have her so that particular fear can be put to rest.Don't be scared of that because, if she rejects you/has rejected you, that's what you will have to do.She doesn't. But if God is really really on your side, there might be a 1% chance that one day in the future she could.You are.That says to me that she is not attracted to you and you should give up.Well, I know one reason you're attracted to her. She's polite. I like polite girls too.Sounds like nothing more than wishful thinking on your part because:That means that this girl has already made it known to other people that she is not attracted to you. Unless you present us with some compelling new evidence, I think we can declare that this girl is not into you.Yes. And I'm sure that is making you appear even less attractive to this girl than you already do.I've been there, man. That sucks. I hate that feeling. Fortunately, as you age, these feelings will get less intense when they hit you. But riding them out is really kind of unpleasant. It's like having a fairly disabling mental illness for weeks or months at a time. We, on ENWorld, feel for you and hope you start feeling better soon.1. Don't tell people on D&D message boards things like this.2. You sound young enough that you can get counselling for free. Sounds like you need a few sessions with a counsellor to give you some strategies for getting ahold of yourself.EDIT: Just checked your profile. I'm almost positive 16 year olds in the UK can get counselling for free.You don't have her so you can't lose her. You aren't scared that you will lose her. You are scared you won't get her. And you're right to be scared. You almost certainly won't.</blockquote>

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