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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Thunderfoot" data-source="post: 2700616" data-attributes="member: 34175">Ferret - First off, I'm glad that you went out with her.  It may or may not be the only time.  I had a young lady that I was quite fond of of, she returned my gestures and I asked her out.  She said no.  Soon after, I found someone else and later married her (we just had our 17th anniversary BTW).  Why do I tell you this.  Two reasons1) I later found out that when she found I had gotten married, she cried for a week.  Why, she never got up the nerve to go out with me, because she was worried what her parents would think (she was a rich, smart girl and I was a "loser" musician)  She actually did want to go out with me.  However, she had no conviction - I was better off without her.2) I found someone better.  Someone who was real with me frm the beginning.  What advice do I offer - None.  But I offer you some things to think on.Are you totally different and what are her social habits, could she be stringing you along, or even embarrased that others mght think you are a couple?Has she given you ANY other indication other than the fertive glances and long pauses before speaking that she MIGHT be interested in you?Is this the first time you've EVER thought about a girl in this context before? (Your hormones are raging at the moment BTW)What does she bring to the relationship other than being a trophy? (This isn't meant as derogitory - but more as food for thought.)I also agree that Buttercup has spoken wisely and from the female perspective, but young girls too can have messed up feelings.  BE VERY CAREFUL!!! You can and are liekly to make a mistake whatever you do. IT"S OK!!! it's called life and you will learn from it... and so will she.Good luck, I'm glad I'm no longer 16....</blockquote>

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