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<blockquote data-quote="Desdichado" data-source="post: 2710417" data-attributes="member: 2205">Actually, I think that's pretty much exactly what TB was talking about.&nbsp; The words used are a bit different, but the spirit of the advise is exactly the same.And it's not always that friends can't be more than friends.&nbsp; There was a gal I knew and considered a friend in high school that I could have had at pretty much any moment if I'd been experienced enough to read between the lines and take her up on it.&nbsp; I only found out later, when I didn't really run in her circle anymore that that was going on.&nbsp; I would have jumped on the opportunity too, if I'd known about it.&nbsp; Of course, later it would have ended in a flaming mess as I got really tired of her neurosis and pathological insecurity (which I could see, but which didn't bother me as a &quot;friend&quot; because it only applied to her romantic relationships), but I bet the sex in the meantime would have been great!&nbsp;&nbsp; <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f61b.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":p" title="Stick out tongue&nbsp; &nbsp; :p"&nbsp; data-smilie="7"data-shortname=":p" /> It always is with pathologically clingy girls who are desperately afraid of being alone.But still, I'll echo the chorus--just be this girl's friend if you want and move on.&nbsp; Go out with someone else.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Desdichado, post: 2710417, member: 2205"] Actually, I think that's pretty much exactly what TB was talking about. The words used are a bit different, but the spirit of the advise is exactly the same. And it's not always that friends can't be more than friends. There was a gal I knew and considered a friend in high school that I could have had at pretty much any moment if I'd been experienced enough to read between the lines and take her up on it. I only found out later, when I didn't really run in her circle anymore that that was going on. I would have jumped on the opportunity too, if I'd known about it. Of course, later it would have ended in a flaming mess as I got really tired of her neurosis and pathological insecurity (which I could see, but which didn't bother me as a "friend" because it only applied to her romantic relationships), but I bet the sex in the meantime would have been great! :p It always is with pathologically clingy girls who are desperately afraid of being alone. But still, I'll echo the chorus--just be this girl's friend if you want and move on. Go out with someone else. [/QUOTE]

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