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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Carebear2326" data-source="post: 1213286" data-attributes="member: 15151">ReplyThat is true, though last night I admit now that I could have at least stuck around for longer & maybe made sure that each character had a way to escape be it by help from another party member or if they could on their own. That for me was just an inexperienced player split second decision & I am totally willing to admit when I make the wrong decision. That is also true, though my characters feeling is that she would rather be a coward & still live than be corageous & dead. After all, who would tell the tales if I am dead? That could possibly be somewhat true. I do try not to think of him as a husband when I am playing though. We have even played characters in a campaign before where my character hated his. I am just trying to base it on the facts. Bucky has been suggesting a non-frontal assault on the keep for a while & I am realizing after the first time that our first attempt at a full on hack & slash assault didn't work at all, which Bucky had tried to explain that it wouldn't work very well from the begining. My bard knows absolutely little to nothing about tactics & is always open to suggestions, but my character is getting tired of getting close to a total party death each time we attack. It is obvious to the bard that the tactics which we have been using, none at the moment, have not been working for us at all, as shown by this last session. My character may not like Bucky's personality at all, but has seen with experience that he does have great ideas for tactics in general, so tends to ask him his ideas for tactics. I have considered presenting them in a different way because it is obvious that the party doesn't trust Bucky simply because he is a rogue & it is obvious that he is, which is totally unfair. He has done nothing to make the party not trust him. He hasn't stolen from the party or done anything to harm any member of the party. He has even tried to reconsile with some of the party members & they refuse to listen to him at all. Bucky is a shifty character, but doesn't mean that he cannot be trusted at all. He has done nothing to make me think he is not trustworthy, in fact, he has stuck around to help out the party when he really didn't need to do it. My husband put up his view, which is I admit much more objective than mine is. As a player, he is great at not putting any of his personal feelings into his character. This has been noticed by many more players than myself, so I am sure that this is not just me being bias on that part. We will sit down & have a talk with the rest of the group next week hopefully before we start, but me & my husband, since we game at our place, sat down afterwards last night & spoke with the DM about our concerns. He agreed to try & talk to the other couple before next week & maybe see if they would be willing to give the group another chance to work things out as a party. I know we just need to come together more as a party & pool all our idea's together, then maybe come up with a compromise that will work great for everyone in the party. I think it will help, if the other couple gives us another chance, to just get used to eachother more since the fact is that this is the first time we have played together & this is  also the first time in a long time that I have played with a party that totally doesn't get along & doesn't listen to eachother. Thanks again for all the advice. I will talk to my husband about it tonight & maybe see if he agree's that maybe I am kinda bias when playing with him & his characters.</blockquote>

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