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<blockquote data-quote="Alzrius" data-source="post: 5289514" data-attributes="member: 8461"><p>Thanks to everyone who has replied so far! I appreciate the advice and the sympathy.</p><p></p><p>A few things I wanted to specifically address.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>That was painful for me to hear (read?), because it's true.</p><p></p><p>In hindsight, I should have immediately spoken out when I realized that the sister's boyfriend was acting under the assumption that he was just going to join in.</p><p></p><p>Instead, since I tend to shy away from being assertive (unless I've moved past that to being aggressive and lashing out at someone), I only managed to ask him what his name was and what character he was making...which, if anything, probably made the implied message that I was acknowledging his joining the group even more explicit.</p><p></p><p>Simply put, I'd prefer not to have a group of more than six - in fact, five is closer to what I'm comfortable with, but I can work with six. Seven, however, is where I draw the limit...at least right now.</p><p></p><p>Now to just try and find a way to doing this without coming across as a hardass, or hurting anyone's feelings.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Woot! Thanks for those! I didn't even think to look on Paizo's forums, but the second link you provided led me to this thread:</p><p></p><p><a href="http://paizo.com/paizo/messageboards/paizoPublishing/pathfinder/adventurePath/kingmaker/convertingKigmakerStolenLandChapter1For6PCs" target="_blank">Converting Kingmaker: Stolen Land (Chapter 1) for 6 PC's</a></p><p></p><p>Which solves a lot of problems, at least for now.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Thanks for that - I'll probably be using your formula after we finish the first adventure (and the above link has exhausted its usefulness).</p><p></p><p>Also, kudos for the math to back up your point - I love it when people show the underlying mechanics for how these things work.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I used to rail against anything that wasn't done by-the-book. Now that I'm actually back behind the GM's screen for the first time in a long while, the shoe is on the other foot in my mouth, as it were. <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f609.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" data-smilie="2"data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Alzrius, post: 5289514, member: 8461"] Thanks to everyone who has replied so far! I appreciate the advice and the sympathy. A few things I wanted to specifically address. That was painful for me to hear (read?), because it's true. In hindsight, I should have immediately spoken out when I realized that the sister's boyfriend was acting under the assumption that he was just going to join in. Instead, since I tend to shy away from being assertive (unless I've moved past that to being aggressive and lashing out at someone), I only managed to ask him what his name was and what character he was making...which, if anything, probably made the implied message that I was acknowledging his joining the group even more explicit. Simply put, I'd prefer not to have a group of more than six - in fact, five is closer to what I'm comfortable with, but I can work with six. Seven, however, is where I draw the limit...at least right now. Now to just try and find a way to doing this without coming across as a hardass, or hurting anyone's feelings. Woot! Thanks for those! I didn't even think to look on Paizo's forums, but the second link you provided led me to this thread: [url=http://paizo.com/paizo/messageboards/paizoPublishing/pathfinder/adventurePath/kingmaker/convertingKigmakerStolenLandChapter1For6PCs]Converting Kingmaker: Stolen Land (Chapter 1) for 6 PC's[/url] Which solves a lot of problems, at least for now. Thanks for that - I'll probably be using your formula after we finish the first adventure (and the above link has exhausted its usefulness). Also, kudos for the math to back up your point - I love it when people show the underlying mechanics for how these things work. I used to rail against anything that wasn't done by-the-book. Now that I'm actually back behind the GM's screen for the first time in a long while, the shoe is on the other foot in my mouth, as it were. ;) [/QUOTE]
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