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Message: <blockquote data-quote="blackshirt5" data-source="post: 1044478" data-attributes="member: 7871">OK, I'll ask the Hive, since y'all seem to be older(or at least wiser, Angcuru notwithstanding) than myself, for advice on this situation:I'm going out with a girl, Beth.  I've known her for quite some time(try about 7 years; I originally hung out with her brother, who's my age, and I'm a year older than Beth); she and I have been dating for a few months, but she has this habit that drives me nuts(ok, two of them):1) She brings up garbage from when we were young; namely, instances that I don't even remember clearly of me and my friend Billy being incredibly cruel to her whenever we hung out with Tommy(her brother); and she gets mad when I point out that mine and Billy's cruelty was well earned, she was a snitch back then, getting the three of us(me, Tom, and Billy) in trouble.  This stopped years ago, but she keeps bringing it up whenever she gets mad at me or I at her.2) She hangs out with people that drive me nuts.  I can understand having to spend time around her godmother's son(who's 16, a mere 3 years younger than her, and has a thing for her; did I mention that he keeps telling her that "Andrew sounds like a real arse[hint: not his exact words]" and "well you should be my girlfriend you deserve a nice guy who can afford to spend money on you") because well, it's her godmother's son she kinda has to be nice, although the fact that she won't introduce me to this kid is a bit suspect; but she hangs out sometimes with her brother, who never goes anywhere without his friend Dennis; I remember Dennis from when me and Tommy still hung out together; he's 9 years older than me and hung with us in high school, and I didn't like him then(he's the "Creepy Loser" type of guy).  I can't stand the fact that she'll hang out with him, especially since Tom drinks, Dennis drinks, and when she's around Tom, she drinks.  And when she drinks she's easily suggestible; last time she got drunk around Dennis and Tom, Tom left the room and left Dennis and Beth alone together and she ended up kissing Dennis.  She insists that this was a one-time thing, but it's definitely suspect the fact that she knows this happens when she drinks but I've called her up a few times since and gotten her on the phone a bit tipsy and giggly and, because I know Tom is pretty much attached at the waist to Dennis and he'd(God only knows why) rather have that disease-ridden pervert with his little sister than me, I'm pretty sure Dennis was around; it's making me insane, and I mean "Guitarist from Queens of the Stone Age" insane, not funny haha insane.  I know I shouldn't let this stuff bother me but it does.Advice, anyone?  I really needed to get that off my chest.</blockquote>

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