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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Sniktch" data-source="post: 1044669" data-attributes="member: 7704">Hmm, not sure if you want my advice or not, blackshirt, but I'll try, based solely upon what was written and realizing that I may not know all the facts...1)  Eh, not really that big a deal.  When someone is mad at you they're going to find something to throw in your face, whether you deserve it or not.  My wife reminds me of questionable things I did long before we started dating when she's in one of those moods - I just don't let it bother me.  She always apologizes when the mood is passed, and frankly, in my case, I probably deserve some of the comments she makes.  2)  This, on the other hand, would be the kicker for me.  Again, I don't know the whole story, but are you sure this person is right for you?  I see basically two possibilities going on here:A little jealousy and desire for control on your part, perhaps.  How much time is she spending in these other peoples' company?  I can't stand some of my wife's friends, but they were her friends before she met me, and I'm not going to keep her from seeing them.  Just like she dislikes some fo my buddies but they can still come over, etc.Someone who is not altogether trustworthy, and maybe not right for you at this stage of your lives.  Going on the assumption that the above paragraph plays little or no part in the situation, her behavior is painted in a different light.  I can tell you that if my girlfriend had ever behaved like that in another man's company, and then continued to drink and hang out with him despite my feelings on the subject, I would show her the door and end my association with her.My advice would really be to think long and hard about the relationship, where its going, and if its right for you.  My two cents, hope you find them at least somewhat helpful.</blockquote>

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