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Message: <blockquote data-quote="timbannock" data-source="post: 4610027" data-attributes="member: 17913">Too many times to count.The one universal truth: if one person has a problem with anyone else in the group, get rid of the one that the most people bitch about (even if it's just minor quibbles).  I didn't follow this advice, and watched groups fall apart because of it.  Several groups.  Long-term friendships snuffed out.  When I finally did it, it was like I'd found Shangri-La.If there's no clear "winner" -- which is hard to believe -- then toss 'em both until they grow up.  And know that not everyone grows up.  Sad but true.</blockquote>