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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Angel Tarragon" data-source="post: 3964333" data-attributes="member: 23733">Well, I have my way of doing it. I am sure that there are many other ways, but this is just me here.I don't worry. About the next minute, the next hour or the next day. There is no guarantee that the world will still be around in that time frame. C'est la vie; whatever will be will be.I do my best to let negativity slide off my back. It is hard to do, but being exposed to massive amounts of it in my teenage years has given me a resistance to it. I admit that it is impossible to let everything slide and a tiny spark can fan a larger flame. What I do to avoid the flame is to have a talk with the person that caused the spark and have a true heart to heart. If the person is difficult and doesn't want to listen, don't let that get you mad. That person is either selfish or self destructive. These kinds of people aren't worth the mental anguish.I am deeply spiritual. Note that I said spiritual and not religious. I believe there is a fine line between the two. If you see or hear something that warms your heart, let the feeling wash over you; it does wonders to refresh your attitude, at least it does for me.Don't be jealous that other people have love. I used to be extremely jealous about this. In fact it made me rather mad, knowing that I am capable of so much love and yet had no one to give it to. This can be extremely hard to do, but if you have the love of your family, and they are a constant in your life, it can be anchor. Spread the love that you are saving for that special someone around to people you really care about in your life.Also, (remember what I said about not worrying, because there is no guarantee of the future?) tell the people that you care about and love in your life how much you care for them and love them. Constantly. Anything can happen anytime. There is no guarantee that when you call it a night with your friends that they'll be alive the next morning. By telling them that you care, the hardship of loss is lessened a little by knowing that you told them that you cared.I hope this helps.</blockquote>

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