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<blockquote data-quote="Ariosto" data-source="post: 5262163" data-attributes="member: 80487">One fellow in my current AD&amp;D group is extremely impetuous. The last time he charged blindly, he turned right around and fled blindly past us in babbling terror.He had not been our only problem of coordination, but that was the catalyst for our electing a leader.As to what seems the real question -- not how we approach tactics, but how we approach one another -- that is a matter of (a) being compassionate and (b) knowing the right language (which can include &quot;body language&quot;).Now, (b) may not be much of an issue if you've already got a relationship in which people are predisposed to take things in the most charitable light. This fellow was not likely to get pissed off unless people acted way out of keeping with how we normally treat each other. The case, though, may be a good example because we addressed the matter as a problem with the group, not a problem with him.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Ariosto, post: 5262163, member: 80487"] One fellow in my current AD&D group is extremely impetuous. The last time he charged blindly, he turned right around and fled blindly past us in babbling terror. He had not been our only problem of coordination, but that was the catalyst for our electing a leader. As to what seems the real question -- not how we approach tactics, but how we approach one another -- that is a matter of (a) being compassionate and (b) knowing the right language (which can include "body language"). Now, (b) may not be much of an issue if you've already got a relationship in which people are predisposed to take things in the most charitable light. This fellow was not likely to get pissed off unless people acted way out of keeping with how we normally treat each other. The case, though, may be a good example because we addressed the matter as a problem with the group, not a problem with him. [/QUOTE]

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