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<blockquote data-quote="Cergorach" data-source="post: 9879565" data-attributes="member: 725"><p>That really depends on the people. Some have the forum-warrior gene and any digital written medium becomes a bloodbath... <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f609.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" data-smilie="2"data-shortname=";)" /></p><p></p><p>If possible (and I don't mean convenient), in person. Less best thing is a video call, next best to that is a voice call. Again, it depends on the people. If you play in person, ask them to stay a bit after the session, that makes it less of a big deal.</p><p></p><p>And how you approach the actual conversation, really depends on the person that's having the issues and your communication skills. Sometimes the DM is the best communicator in the group, sometimes it isn't. There's imho nothing wrong with someone else that's better at communicating doing the 'deed'.</p><p></p><p>In my experience it doesn't help being adversarial. If this is not their normal behaviour, start by asking what's going on and if everything is fine. If it is their normal behaviour, why did you start playing with this person? Chances are you're not going to change them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cergorach, post: 9879565, member: 725"] That really depends on the people. Some have the forum-warrior gene and any digital written medium becomes a bloodbath... ;) If possible (and I don't mean convenient), in person. Less best thing is a video call, next best to that is a voice call. Again, it depends on the people. If you play in person, ask them to stay a bit after the session, that makes it less of a big deal. And how you approach the actual conversation, really depends on the person that's having the issues and your communication skills. Sometimes the DM is the best communicator in the group, sometimes it isn't. There's imho nothing wrong with someone else that's better at communicating doing the 'deed'. In my experience it doesn't help being adversarial. If this is not their normal behaviour, start by asking what's going on and if everything is fine. If it is their normal behaviour, why did you start playing with this person? Chances are you're not going to change them. [/QUOTE]
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