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Message: <blockquote data-quote="fba827" data-source="post: 5567860" data-attributes="member: 807">i think this will lead to a rather unhealthy obsession (if it hasn't already) for your brother.  So (regardless of what his intent is) my first thought is that -- while difficult -- he should not be pursuing this as it will only feed his obsession about it and remind him of the pain he is feeling, thus putting him in a bad (worse) emotional state in the gradual long run that will be harder to recover from.having said that[sblock]if his wife uses her cell phone to communicate with the person, and if your brother has access to the cell phone bill (not the summary that gets mailed, but the detail which is often available in the online phone bill version) then he may be able to find his number under the text-ed or called numbers.[/sblock]</blockquote>