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<blockquote data-quote="Oryan77" data-source="post: 5570341" data-attributes="member: 18701">Please don't try to take the moral high ground with me.And you assume that they were not talking. You'll just have to trust that I know the situation and I know my family.My brother has been trying to talk to his wife for a very long time now because he knew something was wrong. He knew that he could have been a better husband (he's not innocent, but he did not intentionally do anything wrong), so when he noticed her being distant &amp; hateful, he bent over backwards to try and please her. She would rarely talk to him, and when she was talking, she was lying to his face.This isn't a D&amp;D group with a problem player. The whole, &quot;Just talk to him/her&quot; response isn't as simple as that in this kind of situation. It should be, but when a person is willing to ruin a family by cheating, then it's not that simple. A woman willing to cheat and not wanting to get caught may not be the type of person that will rationally talk about it and spill her guts about the events after getting caught. She's not going to tell us all about this guy just because we asked. It seems like people think they know better than I do about this, which is why you got the big grinning smiley. I had already mentioned that he talked to his wife, but you seem to be arguing with me on the subject. I'm not interested in arguing when the only person that knows what is going on is me. I also don't need to be lectured to.I don't think anything else will add much to this thread and I gave a follow-up on the situation for anyone that happened to be interested. It's probably best if you lock it (if you want).</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Oryan77, post: 5570341, member: 18701"] Please don't try to take the moral high ground with me. And you assume that they were not talking. You'll just have to trust that I know the situation and I know my family. My brother has been trying to talk to his wife for a very long time now because he knew something was wrong. He knew that he could have been a better husband (he's not innocent, but he did not intentionally do anything wrong), so when he noticed her being distant & hateful, he bent over backwards to try and please her. She would rarely talk to him, and when she was talking, she was lying to his face. This isn't a D&D group with a problem player. The whole, "Just talk to him/her" response isn't as simple as that in this kind of situation. It should be, but when a person is willing to ruin a family by cheating, then it's not that simple. A woman willing to cheat and not wanting to get caught may not be the type of person that will rationally talk about it and spill her guts about the events after getting caught. She's not going to tell us all about this guy just because we asked. It seems like people think they know better than I do about this, which is why you got the big grinning smiley. I had already mentioned that he talked to his wife, but you seem to be arguing with me on the subject. I'm not interested in arguing when the only person that knows what is going on is me. I also don't need to be lectured to. I don't think anything else will add much to this thread and I gave a follow-up on the situation for anyone that happened to be interested. It's probably best if you lock it (if you want). [/QUOTE]

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