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<blockquote data-quote="p_johnston" data-source="post: 8827273" data-attributes="member: 7016849">Thanks everyone for all the advice. It did help put some things in perspective and a few posts really helped me see it from my players perspective.So update for anyone who is interested we met on Sunday and spent around 30 minutes chatting before the game. I expressed how I was feeling and gave several example that I gave here (making sure that I gave examples including several different players so that no one person felt singled out). The conclusion my group came to was that were just bad at communicating sometimes and too accommodating. It was pointed out by my players that in most scenarios it's that one person gets a bit in their teeth and everyone else tends to just go along or not clearly voice any objection they might have.Solution we came to was that whenever any of us notice that happening (me included) or feel uncomfortable that person can say &quot;hey let's pause a minute&quot; stop the game and we'll have a discussion out of game to clarify how everyones feeling and insure everyone is ok with what's going on. Don't know if it's 100% fix but hopefully it turns out well going forward. Thanks for the help guys.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="p_johnston, post: 8827273, member: 7016849"] Thanks everyone for all the advice. It did help put some things in perspective and a few posts really helped me see it from my players perspective. So update for anyone who is interested we met on Sunday and spent around 30 minutes chatting before the game. I expressed how I was feeling and gave several example that I gave here (making sure that I gave examples including several different players so that no one person felt singled out). The conclusion my group came to was that were just bad at communicating sometimes and too accommodating. It was pointed out by my players that in most scenarios it's that one person gets a bit in their teeth and everyone else tends to just go along or not clearly voice any objection they might have. Solution we came to was that whenever any of us notice that happening (me included) or feel uncomfortable that person can say "hey let's pause a minute" stop the game and we'll have a discussion out of game to clarify how everyones feeling and insure everyone is ok with what's going on. Don't know if it's 100% fix but hopefully it turns out well going forward. Thanks for the help guys. [/QUOTE]

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