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<blockquote data-quote="Tatsukun" data-source="post: 2740871" data-attributes="member: 15511"><p>Don’t worry about it, I have been aware of Graf’s feelings about me for a long time. I have tried a few times to reach out and mend the relationship directly and through mutual friends, but the man just plain doesn’t like me and I work well as a cause of all his troubles. </p><p></p><p>But this drama does in fact relate to the topic at hand as I see it. Playing styles and personalities are things that can conflict deeply. A guy can join a group and think everything is fine, but in fact there is someone else in the group who absolutely hates him. This could be what went on in the OP’s group, I have no idea; and my point is that the OP might not have any idea either. </p><p></p><p>I should also point out that Graf is right. We were never co-DMs officially. What I was trying to say in the first post was that in my game he acted like a dm, while a player. Then, when I went to me next game I did the same thing to the DM. This is another thing that might have happened to the OP, again, I don’t know. </p><p></p><p>BTW: I do still think Graf made the best story-based game I have played in. I would play in another of his games, but he wouldn’t be welcome in mine. I am sorry that he got so burned out on DnD, and that he blames it on me. </p><p></p><p>Email me man, we can work this out. </p><p></p><p> -Tatsu</p><p></p><p>Below is a message to Graf: </p><p></p><p>[sblock]</p><p>Graf, I have tried to fix this relationship, but so far I have gotten nothing from you. I assume I don’t have your current email, and that you are ignoring private messages. </p><p></p><p>Please email me so we can work things out. I don’t harbor any ill feelings towards you. Your scarred lands game didn’t fall apart because of me. It fell apart because you were devoting yourself to it too much. This made for a great game, the best story I have played in; but it also burned you out. That’s why you had to take a year off pen-n-paper gaming and do MMRPGs. I am glad to hear that you are back. I would love to get a cup of coffee and talk about this. </p><p></p><p>I am not the devil who caused your burn out. I am not the vile person you think I am. I was new to high-story gaming in your scarred lands game. I have learned a lot since then, and I have become a better gamer. Please don’t get stuck on me as a cause of all your problems. You have to move on man. It’s not healthy to wallow in hate. </p><p></p><p>Email me, please, or email Will, or Connor, or even Ats (if anyone can find him). Talk to someone about it. </p><p></p><p>[/sblock]</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tatsukun, post: 2740871, member: 15511"] Don’t worry about it, I have been aware of Graf’s feelings about me for a long time. I have tried a few times to reach out and mend the relationship directly and through mutual friends, but the man just plain doesn’t like me and I work well as a cause of all his troubles. But this drama does in fact relate to the topic at hand as I see it. Playing styles and personalities are things that can conflict deeply. A guy can join a group and think everything is fine, but in fact there is someone else in the group who absolutely hates him. This could be what went on in the OP’s group, I have no idea; and my point is that the OP might not have any idea either. I should also point out that Graf is right. We were never co-DMs officially. What I was trying to say in the first post was that in my game he acted like a dm, while a player. Then, when I went to me next game I did the same thing to the DM. This is another thing that might have happened to the OP, again, I don’t know. BTW: I do still think Graf made the best story-based game I have played in. I would play in another of his games, but he wouldn’t be welcome in mine. I am sorry that he got so burned out on DnD, and that he blames it on me. Email me man, we can work this out. -Tatsu Below is a message to Graf: [sblock] Graf, I have tried to fix this relationship, but so far I have gotten nothing from you. I assume I don’t have your current email, and that you are ignoring private messages. Please email me so we can work things out. I don’t harbor any ill feelings towards you. Your scarred lands game didn’t fall apart because of me. It fell apart because you were devoting yourself to it too much. This made for a great game, the best story I have played in; but it also burned you out. That’s why you had to take a year off pen-n-paper gaming and do MMRPGs. I am glad to hear that you are back. I would love to get a cup of coffee and talk about this. I am not the devil who caused your burn out. I am not the vile person you think I am. I was new to high-story gaming in your scarred lands game. I have learned a lot since then, and I have become a better gamer. Please don’t get stuck on me as a cause of all your problems. You have to move on man. It’s not healthy to wallow in hate. Email me, please, or email Will, or Connor, or even Ats (if anyone can find him). Talk to someone about it. [/sblock] [/QUOTE]
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