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<blockquote data-quote="Henry" data-source="post: 1077913" data-attributes="member: 158">First of all, Lavinia, Welcome to ENWorld! <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile&nbsp; &nbsp; :)"&nbsp; data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" />Second of all,It is possible that this player felt like it was a personal insult to him for giving others the extra XP when he himself did not get the award. It's usually best to talk about the situation as an open group, rather than either ostracizing him, or writing a personal e-mail, as it puts the issue in front of the group, instead of making it personal. Did you announce before the start of the campaign that roleplaying awards would be given? Or was it spur-of-the-moment?In either case, talking about the situation in a non-hostile way with the group might bring more understanding of his concerns, and might also allow you to bring to light that you were hurt in this exchange, too.Good luck, and I hope you stick around ENWorld!HenryModeratorENWorld</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Henry, post: 1077913, member: 158"] First of all, Lavinia, Welcome to ENWorld! :) Second of all, It is possible that this player felt like it was a personal insult to him for giving others the extra XP when he himself did not get the award. It's usually best to talk about the situation as an open group, rather than either ostracizing him, or writing a personal e-mail, as it puts the issue in front of the group, instead of making it personal. Did you announce before the start of the campaign that roleplaying awards would be given? Or was it spur-of-the-moment? In either case, talking about the situation in a non-hostile way with the group might bring more understanding of his concerns, and might also allow you to bring to light that you were hurt in this exchange, too. Good luck, and I hope you stick around ENWorld! Henry Moderator ENWorld [/QUOTE]

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