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<blockquote data-quote="Droop-in-soup" data-source="post: 7955039" data-attributes="member: 7022302">I realize I have a question to add to your post.&nbsp; And I would love to hear some people at least verify the validity of the point I would like to add.I have to agree with your assessment of my situation - with this specific DM.I would add this too, that also no DM wants me to act out about dice rolls, etc. Any bad behavior I have to own and deal with. That is universal.But I am not yet convinced in overly fixing the separate rolls between player and DM .&nbsp; If I have potential as a DM, then it is clear that a DM (me) would be very happy to have a player engage on the level of correcting facets of things that might offer rich experiences and learning.&nbsp; Feats, spells, whatever.&nbsp; Isn't this the basis of friends who like to home brew?&nbsp; Sure, I'd have limits, but I expect I can't be the only one who imagines a friendly partnership between players and DM in this way. I would expect the hear things like this on this forum like:&nbsp; You are a home brew type, there are lots of DMs who would be glad to explore things with you. But not your current DM, so you have to stop asking him. But if you find the right DM, you might find yourself a welcome player. (aside from bad behavior)I don't see myself as pure DMs nightmare. I do see myself as a nightmare for my friend DM.&nbsp; Are people going to insist that my asks are in the majority a problem, or ok in themselves and just need the right DM.&nbsp; My asks are one thing. Bad behavior is another thing. I am separating the two things and looking for whether another culture exists here than those who relate to my friend as DM.Thoughts, feedback from anyone?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Droop-in-soup, post: 7955039, member: 7022302"] I realize I have a question to add to your post. And I would love to hear some people at least verify the validity of the point I would like to add. I have to agree with your assessment of my situation - with this specific DM. I would add this too, that also no DM wants me to act out about dice rolls, etc. Any bad behavior I have to own and deal with. That is universal. But I am not yet convinced in overly fixing the separate rolls between player and DM . If I have potential as a DM, then it is clear that a DM (me) would be very happy to have a player engage on the level of correcting facets of things that might offer rich experiences and learning. Feats, spells, whatever. Isn't this the basis of friends who like to home brew? Sure, I'd have limits, but I expect I can't be the only one who imagines a friendly partnership between players and DM in this way. I would expect the hear things like this on this forum like: You are a home brew type, there are lots of DMs who would be glad to explore things with you. But not your current DM, so you have to stop asking him. But if you find the right DM, you might find yourself a welcome player. (aside from bad behavior) I don't see myself as pure DMs nightmare. I do see myself as a nightmare for my friend DM. Are people going to insist that my asks are in the majority a problem, or ok in themselves and just need the right DM. My asks are one thing. Bad behavior is another thing. I am separating the two things and looking for whether another culture exists here than those who relate to my friend as DM. Thoughts, feedback from anyone? [/QUOTE]

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