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I'm seeking advice. How do you encourage players to talk to each other and do stuff?
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<blockquote data-quote="garbagetier" data-source="post: 7833781" data-attributes="member: 7016666"><p>We are all early to late middle aged. I know two of my players very, very well and can definitely have a heart to heart. A third player is a great guy, is definitely interested in playing sometimes, but is usually the first to get bored. I'd say we are good friends, we both enjoy hanging out, but this is one of his first tabletop rpgs.</p><p></p><p>One of the two dear friends is a gem at the table. He frankly steals the spotlight often but I've spoken with the other players about this, encouraging them to let me know after a session if I ever failed to recognize when he's doing this. I let him run wild a little bit now and then but mostly pull other players into the spotlight with him or encourage him to do it.</p><p></p><p>The other dear friend, yeah, he's definitely the one to talk to straight forward. Overall (I'm replying to this post first as it was on the bottom) everyone seems to say "talk to them", which should have been obvious, but man I was in the dumps last night. This second dear friend, he'll not pull punches when he tells me how I can improve and he will also be receptive to my own needs from him as well. This is a great start.</p><p></p><p>I also made a list of where I feel I fail as a DM. I'll be searching this site for how people improve in those areas as well.</p><p></p><p>Thanks!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="garbagetier, post: 7833781, member: 7016666"] We are all early to late middle aged. I know two of my players very, very well and can definitely have a heart to heart. A third player is a great guy, is definitely interested in playing sometimes, but is usually the first to get bored. I'd say we are good friends, we both enjoy hanging out, but this is one of his first tabletop rpgs. One of the two dear friends is a gem at the table. He frankly steals the spotlight often but I've spoken with the other players about this, encouraging them to let me know after a session if I ever failed to recognize when he's doing this. I let him run wild a little bit now and then but mostly pull other players into the spotlight with him or encourage him to do it. The other dear friend, yeah, he's definitely the one to talk to straight forward. Overall (I'm replying to this post first as it was on the bottom) everyone seems to say "talk to them", which should have been obvious, but man I was in the dumps last night. This second dear friend, he'll not pull punches when he tells me how I can improve and he will also be receptive to my own needs from him as well. This is a great start. I also made a list of where I feel I fail as a DM. I'll be searching this site for how people improve in those areas as well. Thanks!! [/QUOTE]
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