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<blockquote data-quote="Alzrius" data-source="post: 5702238" data-attributes="member: 8461"><p>The goal of the game is to have fun; if other people tell you that you are ruining theirs, then you are by definition the problem.</p><p></p><p>When your character impacts on the other characters in the party, then your character has become an obstacle to them enjoying themselves. You may not have intended to do so, but that doesn't change the fact that you have done so.</p><p></p><p>Saying "well, everybody's character should have been as cool as mine, instead of being all 'gimpled'" is a good way to make everybody else also think that you should find another group to play with, too. Being in a team means doing what's best for the team, not yourself (ideally, you can do what's best for the team and yourself).</p><p></p><p>Just because your character is built strongly in some fashion doesn't mean you can't role-play, but that's not the issue. The issue is that if your character is causing a problem, the fact that it's inadvertent doesn't make it any less of a problem. </p><p></p><p>Likewise, that's not judging the player by his build; it's judging the player by how incredibly defensive he becomes in claiming that everybody else is wrong for not optimizing the way he did. Hence, that player is the one who should stop playing D&D, because he hasn't mastered the most important part of it - playing well with others.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Alzrius, post: 5702238, member: 8461"] The goal of the game is to have fun; if other people tell you that you are ruining theirs, then you are by definition the problem. When your character impacts on the other characters in the party, then your character has become an obstacle to them enjoying themselves. You may not have intended to do so, but that doesn't change the fact that you have done so. Saying "well, everybody's character should have been as cool as mine, instead of being all 'gimpled'" is a good way to make everybody else also think that you should find another group to play with, too. Being in a team means doing what's best for the team, not yourself (ideally, you can do what's best for the team and yourself). Just because your character is built strongly in some fashion doesn't mean you can't role-play, but that's not the issue. The issue is that if your character is causing a problem, the fact that it's inadvertent doesn't make it any less of a problem. Likewise, that's not judging the player by his build; it's judging the player by how incredibly defensive he becomes in claiming that everybody else is wrong for not optimizing the way he did. Hence, that player is the one who should stop playing D&D, because he hasn't mastered the most important part of it - playing well with others. [/QUOTE]
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