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Is my brother a problem player? Or am I just a bad DM?
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<blockquote data-quote="Delazar" data-source="post: 8214265" data-attributes="member: 71130"><p>When I read this kind of posts, I'm always curious to know also the "other side" of the story. If your brother could read this, what would he reply? In fact, maybe you should give him a link, and give him a chance to tell his side of the story.</p><p></p><p>From what I can read, yes, your brother sounds like a problem player. And I understand you don't want to just kick him from the game, he's fellow player, and he's your brother after all.</p><p></p><p>I would say "try and talk with him and the party, and find a solution together", but when you write "he spent half an hour shouting at me", well for me that's a 100% "sorry, you're not in this party anymore". No one has the right to shout at you, not even when (if) you're wrong.</p><p></p><p>I'm not a quitter, but if you're really really stuck, there's no dishonor in just saying "guys, this isn't really working for me, maybe better if someone else DMs".</p><p></p><p>I hope you find a solution soon, D&D is for having fun, not for feeling bad.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Delazar, post: 8214265, member: 71130"] When I read this kind of posts, I'm always curious to know also the "other side" of the story. If your brother could read this, what would he reply? In fact, maybe you should give him a link, and give him a chance to tell his side of the story. From what I can read, yes, your brother sounds like a problem player. And I understand you don't want to just kick him from the game, he's fellow player, and he's your brother after all. I would say "try and talk with him and the party, and find a solution together", but when you write "he spent half an hour shouting at me", well for me that's a 100% "sorry, you're not in this party anymore". No one has the right to shout at you, not even when (if) you're wrong. I'm not a quitter, but if you're really really stuck, there's no dishonor in just saying "guys, this isn't really working for me, maybe better if someone else DMs". I hope you find a solution soon, D&D is for having fun, not for feeling bad. [/QUOTE]
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