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Message: <blockquote data-quote="BlueBlackRed" data-source="post: 3128317" data-attributes="member: 24239">Wow you all are way too nice for my tastes.Well except for the killing them and taking their stuff...until you find out all of "their stuff" used to be "your stuff" before they stole it.Dannyalcatraz I'm sorry about your grandmother, and I'm sorry that you have to put up with bad family members.There is no easy answer. Cutting the brats out of your life means cutting others out that you might want to keep in touch with.Change your locks, passwords, and so on just for starters.Personally, I'd cut them out of my life.I've worked way too hard to get "my stuff".I have a step-sister who got pregnant at 15, has caused strife for several family members, been arrested multiple times for selling cocaine, and has had her child taken away from her. (I'm sure there's more, but I think you've got the point.)To her, the world revolves around her. When my grandfather died a couple years back, someone she had only met once before, she hogged the phone calling her friends, telling them how traumatic it was for her!Other family members keep dealing with her and get burned every single time.I do not associate with her and on the rare chance I am around her I am polite but cold. And because I give a no-nonsense kind of attitude she doesn't bother trying to play her violin on me.</blockquote>