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<blockquote data-quote="Fenes 2" data-source="post: 847998" data-attributes="member: 6166"><p>First, I stated that this was a course of last resort, after all alternatives that could lead to rehabilitation failed. (But, honestly, if telling him straight you have no fun and he should change does not help then I doubt any chance of rehabilitation.)</p><p></p><p>IMHO, if I tell someone I have no fun with the way he runs a game, and he tells me that he cannot understand why I don't have fun and that he will not change his ways then he basically tells me that my enjoyment of the game and general wishes and opinions do not count in his opinions. With people who show such a disregard toward me I am not willing to spend my spare time with. </p><p></p><p>It does not matter if he understands why Tsyr is upset or not - only that he knows Tsyr has no fun in the game, and if he either takes action to remedy the situation, or not.</p><p></p><p>Forcing a player to keep playing a character that is no fun is, imho, about the worst thing you can do as a DM. In addition to that, the mindset behind that act shows, again imho, traits that go way and beyond a control freak DM.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fenes 2, post: 847998, member: 6166"] First, I stated that this was a course of last resort, after all alternatives that could lead to rehabilitation failed. (But, honestly, if telling him straight you have no fun and he should change does not help then I doubt any chance of rehabilitation.) IMHO, if I tell someone I have no fun with the way he runs a game, and he tells me that he cannot understand why I don't have fun and that he will not change his ways then he basically tells me that my enjoyment of the game and general wishes and opinions do not count in his opinions. With people who show such a disregard toward me I am not willing to spend my spare time with. It does not matter if he understands why Tsyr is upset or not - only that he knows Tsyr has no fun in the game, and if he either takes action to remedy the situation, or not. Forcing a player to keep playing a character that is no fun is, imho, about the worst thing you can do as a DM. In addition to that, the mindset behind that act shows, again imho, traits that go way and beyond a control freak DM. [/QUOTE]
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