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<blockquote data-quote="king_ghidorah" data-source="post: 1966417" data-attributes="member: 18404"><p>Well, I can give you the advice of someone recently divorced.... <img src="http://www.enworld.org/forum/images/smilies/paranoid.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":uhoh:" title="Paranoid :uhoh:" data-shortname=":uhoh:" /> </p><p></p><ol> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Communicate honestly. Especially about the stuff that is hard to communicate honestly about.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Remember to maintain your separate lives. Don't expect her to be your only source of happiness and fulfillment, you will both grow to regret and resent that.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Learn when to compromise and when to stand your ground. Learn to acknowledge and face when you chose the wrong path.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Maintain 3 checking accounts- yours, hers, and a shared account. The shared account is for all your household bills. Your individual accounts are for your personal expenses.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Marriage is work. There is play there, too, and it's good work, but it won't work just because you love each other and have rings on your fingers.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Set aside time for each other. Remember to romance each other.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Set aside time for yourselves. Maintain separate lives so there is always something to share and discover.</li> </ol><p></p><p>I wish you the best. Marriage is a wonderful and rewarding relationship, and I hope you have a long-lasting relationship.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="king_ghidorah, post: 1966417, member: 18404"] Well, I can give you the advice of someone recently divorced.... :uhoh: [list=1] [*]Communicate honestly. Especially about the stuff that is hard to communicate honestly about. [*]Remember to maintain your separate lives. Don't expect her to be your only source of happiness and fulfillment, you will both grow to regret and resent that. [*]Learn when to compromise and when to stand your ground. Learn to acknowledge and face when you chose the wrong path. [*]Maintain 3 checking accounts- yours, hers, and a shared account. The shared account is for all your household bills. Your individual accounts are for your personal expenses. [*]Marriage is work. There is play there, too, and it's good work, but it won't work just because you love each other and have rings on your fingers. [*]Set aside time for each other. Remember to romance each other. [*]Set aside time for yourselves. Maintain separate lives so there is always something to share and discover. [/list] I wish you the best. Marriage is a wonderful and rewarding relationship, and I hope you have a long-lasting relationship. [/QUOTE]
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