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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Turanil" data-source="post: 1966697" data-attributes="member: 9646">And then:I think I am beginning to figure out how Crothian managed to post 24,000 times...  <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f600.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":D" title="Big grin    :D"  data-smilie="8"data-shortname=":D" /> LOL! Words of wisdom here!  <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f61b.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":p" title="Stick out tongue    :p"  data-smilie="7"data-shortname=":p" />  Don't tell him right now, he will learn by himself soon enough! (Sorry to disappoint you).My own advice (and yes I have been married, and not in a hurry to do that a second time): Communication! Express your feeling and emotions. Don't keep bad emotions and feeling inside, it's bad on the long term. Of course it also apply to your wife: she also must express her emotions and feelings. Now, when it comes to anger and similar emotions, you must express them without aggression; you can scream, but keep it expressing your anger not attacking her. Oh well, there is a much excellent book on communication (and I have read many, so trust me this one is uber excellent): <a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1892005026/qid=1105961570/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/002-6687509-6239242?v=glance&s=books" target="_blank"> Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Compassion.</a> (get a look at the reviews: only maximum ratings!). This book can greatly help anybody better communicate with others. When things get tough in marriage, it can really help.</blockquote>

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