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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Ashwyn" data-source="post: 1993579" data-attributes="member: 5442">I know what you're talking about. I went through something similar with my ex, though we weren't married. I have my days of being so tired of dealing with everything I just want to go to bed and sleep until the problems go away, but other times it goes the opposite way, where I'm just sick of dealing with it and decide "I'm not going to let it get to me today." But I am left trying to heal the damage done by my ex, which is excruciatingly frustrating, because just when I was getting to the point where I was finally getting over what I've been struggling against for years, I now have to get back to where I was before I met her. It's like digging yourself out of a grave then having someone dump a truckload of dirt on you.That's something that helped me a lot too.</blockquote>