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<blockquote data-quote="Nonlethal Force" data-source="post: 4667443" data-attributes="member: 35788">[I'm not posting the quotes to be snarky.&nbsp; It's just that sometimes people forget what is in posts that are a few days old.&nbsp; Please don't take this as me trying to make fun or get irritating.]Now, back to the argument... I amwith the other posters.&nbsp; I would walk so fast the door wouldn't have a chance to hit me where the sun don't shine.&nbsp; But, I'm also 33 and I look for a game that is challenging on ethical/moral/social level.&nbsp; So this kind of immaturity would make me realize that i'm with the wrong group.Mind you ... I'm not judging that group.&nbsp; There is nothing wrong with getting together to do what the do.&nbsp; But to act childishly in leadership is not my schtick when I want a serious game.Of course, I also realize that there are usually two sides to every story, too.&nbsp; A lot of gaming dynamics is perception of what is going on - not what is actually going on.&nbsp; I can't tell you how many game fights have broken out because people misreading each other at the table and not realizing they're doing it until after the are already angry.&nbsp; I try to always ask myself &quot;what am I doing to contribute to the problem&quot; well before I ask &quot;what is everyone else doing to cheese me off.&quot;Again, I'm not trying to find fault, just illustrate that I think there is more than one side to the dynamics at the table.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Nonlethal Force, post: 4667443, member: 35788"] [I'm not posting the quotes to be snarky. It's just that sometimes people forget what is in posts that are a few days old. Please don't take this as me trying to make fun or get irritating.] Now, back to the argument... I amwith the other posters. I would walk so fast the door wouldn't have a chance to hit me where the sun don't shine. But, I'm also 33 and I look for a game that is challenging on ethical/moral/social level. So this kind of immaturity would make me realize that i'm with the wrong group. Mind you ... I'm not judging that group. There is nothing wrong with getting together to do what the do. But to act childishly in leadership is not my schtick when I want a serious game. Of course, I also realize that there are usually two sides to every story, too. A lot of gaming dynamics is perception of what is going on - not what is actually going on. I can't tell you how many game fights have broken out because people misreading each other at the table and not realizing they're doing it until after the are already angry. I try to always ask myself "what am I doing to contribute to the problem" well before I ask "what is everyone else doing to cheese me off." Again, I'm not trying to find fault, just illustrate that I think there is more than one side to the dynamics at the table. [/QUOTE]

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