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Message: <blockquote data-quote="nnamdobs" data-source="post: 649394" data-attributes="member: 10078">You seem pretty frustrated.  Is she disrupting the game?I'm a bit of a shy player myself, and my very first reaction to this post was that perhaps she doesn't enjoy the spotlight like the the other player(s).  If you're concerned about HER enjoyment, like the original post mentioned, maybe you should just talk to her frankly (and tactfully) about it.  If she doesn't like the spotlight, why force it?If it's disrupting the game, then that's a little different.  If it's just the three of you, maybe the fiance could shed some light on the subject and offer suggestions for things to open her up and/or subplots that would interest her.  Also, with that few people, could you adjust the game so it's still fun for everyone, even if she continues to shy from the spotlight?If it's more than the three of you, you could still enlist the fiance's help.  You can ask him for info like above, plus set up a situation where just the three of you are RPing together -- make the other players leave the room.  She might feel more comfortable in a smaller, more intimate group.Good luck!</blockquote>