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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Neonchameleon" data-source="post: 9010609" data-attributes="member: 87792">Common cultural understandings.You've heard the comment that when a married couple is fighting over something silly then it's not actually that thing that matters? That  sounds like what is going on here. Either this is a strawman or things have gone deeply, badly wrong that it got to that point.Is a legitimate request, not a veto issue.100%. Just as a marriage has 100% veto power from both sides - but if people are actively using that veto power  or wielding the threat of it like a club things have gone badly wrong and are almost certainly on the way.</blockquote>