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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Treebore" data-source="post: 3344268" data-attributes="member: 10177">Civil is a heck of a lot better than a angry break up. It hurts now, but it will go away and you will hopefully meet the right one next time around.I did similiar, with a somewhat amicable divorce. The next (serious) woman has been my wife for 16 years and almost 3 months now. Still going strong. Getting better and better, actually.So get the pain over with (let go), spend some time learning what you can from it, and just keep your heart open for the "right" one when she comes along.Don't expect it to be obvious. When I met my wife to be my first thoughts were, "There is no way I would date, let alone marry, a crazy woman like her!" I sure was wrong. Thank God!I asked her to marry me within 3 weeks of our dating. I had only "known" her for about 3 months prior to our dating, and not very well. We ran into each other only once every week or two, at our D&D game we both played in. We didn't talke to eaqch other much.I actually took a "second look" at her because of the way she played her character. It clued me into the fact that I had made a bad "first opinion/impression" of her.Fortunately for me she had been interested in me from the first or second time we met. So we went out on dates, hit it off great. Stayed up talking all night (yes, just talking) several times, then before our third full week of dating I asked her to marry me. The rest is history.So don't think badly about your future. There will be another woman. She will be much better on many levels and you'll be happier than you ever thought you could be again.Just be patient. Learn and grow from this experience. The best is yet to come.</blockquote>

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