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<blockquote data-quote="CuRoi" data-source="post: 5624428" data-attributes="member: 98032"><p>Personally, I may not care much for a certain edition but if my group chooses to play one and I take the time to show up and sit down at the table, I'm not going to whine about it, sabotage it, or annoy others with my personal preference. If my dislike is <em>that</em> bad, I'm just going to find something else to do, like an adult.</p><p> </p><p>Maybe this doesn't sound constructive but there is no sense in changing the entire campaign just for this one person. If his wife isn't invested in the campaign enough that she wont take her own time to show once he leaves, then she's not going ot be a huge loss either.</p><p> </p><p>I'd just have a discussion with him - you say he's an old friend. What specifically does he not like? Is it even something you can change? He may have legit complaints, if so , address them. On the other hand he may just rattle off a bunch of things you can't control or alter. In which case, I'd just apologize, tell him there's not much you can do and you want to see the current game through. </p><p> </p><p>I don't know much about your group's dynamics, but I think you've done the right thing polling the group. Continue to seek everyone's feedback, don't weigh any one person's feedback more heavily than the next, and you'll be fine.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CuRoi, post: 5624428, member: 98032"] Personally, I may not care much for a certain edition but if my group chooses to play one and I take the time to show up and sit down at the table, I'm not going to whine about it, sabotage it, or annoy others with my personal preference. If my dislike is [I]that[/I] bad, I'm just going to find something else to do, like an adult. Maybe this doesn't sound constructive but there is no sense in changing the entire campaign just for this one person. If his wife isn't invested in the campaign enough that she wont take her own time to show once he leaves, then she's not going ot be a huge loss either. I'd just have a discussion with him - you say he's an old friend. What specifically does he not like? Is it even something you can change? He may have legit complaints, if so , address them. On the other hand he may just rattle off a bunch of things you can't control or alter. In which case, I'd just apologize, tell him there's not much you can do and you want to see the current game through. I don't know much about your group's dynamics, but I think you've done the right thing polling the group. Continue to seek everyone's feedback, don't weigh any one person's feedback more heavily than the next, and you'll be fine. [/QUOTE]
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