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<blockquote data-quote="pawsplay" data-source="post: 5293126" data-attributes="member: 15538">I suggest you say that you can't help noticing she is keeps obviously disrupting the game and say you are wondering if doing something else is so important to her that she honestly does not care, or anyways notice, that she is disrupting the group. One of three things will likely happen:1. She will explain herself. Talking about feelings has a magical way of actually causing things related to feelings to sometimes get resolved. This will advance the possibility of fixing the game.2. She will be nonplussed by your assertive communication, and respond in such a way that you realize there is no possible resolution, she is actually intent on controlling others through punishment. This will help you understand it is time to move on.3. You will find out the couple are feuding. In that case the only thing to do is try to identify whether the conflict is a temporary, growth-oriented one, or a longstanding, destructive one.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="pawsplay, post: 5293126, member: 15538"] I suggest you say that you can't help noticing she is keeps obviously disrupting the game and say you are wondering if doing something else is so important to her that she honestly does not care, or anyways notice, that she is disrupting the group. One of three things will likely happen: 1. She will explain herself. Talking about feelings has a magical way of actually causing things related to feelings to sometimes get resolved. This will advance the possibility of fixing the game. 2. She will be nonplussed by your assertive communication, and respond in such a way that you realize there is no possible resolution, she is actually intent on controlling others through punishment. This will help you understand it is time to move on. 3. You will find out the couple are feuding. In that case the only thing to do is try to identify whether the conflict is a temporary, growth-oriented one, or a longstanding, destructive one. [/QUOTE]

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