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<blockquote data-quote="abirdcall" data-source="post: 8472453" data-attributes="member: 6748898">Repeating a couple things for emphasis:It is okay if you don't understand. Just listen to and believe marginalized peoples.It is perfectly okay to &quot;screw up&quot;. Most people don't have a problem with someone doing something that they didn't even realize wasn't a good thing to do or didn't have the perspective for it or whatever.What is important is that a person listens and tries to do better next time.If someone is worried about how they are representing someone in game either as NPC or PC I encourage them to post and talk about it.Some people may say that it wasn't a great way to go about it but they're not judging, just giving some info so they can know better going forward.(This is different than expecting labour from marginalized people to educate. Lots of stuff can be found on Google. But if you just put it out there and someone freely replies that is cool.)</blockquote>

[QUOTE="abirdcall, post: 8472453, member: 6748898"] Repeating a couple things for emphasis: It is okay if you don't understand. Just listen to and believe marginalized peoples. It is perfectly okay to "screw up". Most people don't have a problem with someone doing something that they didn't even realize wasn't a good thing to do or didn't have the perspective for it or whatever. What is important is that a person listens and tries to do better next time. If someone is worried about how they are representing someone in game either as NPC or PC I encourage them to post and talk about it. Some people may say that it wasn't a great way to go about it but they're not judging, just giving some info so they can know better going forward. (This is different than expecting labour from marginalized people to educate. Lots of stuff can be found on Google. But if you just put it out there and someone freely replies that is cool.) [/QUOTE]

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