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Message: <blockquote data-quote="William Ronald" data-source="post: 229987" data-attributes="member: 426">Kyle,May you find peace.There has been much that has been said here that is true and wise.You must be strong for yourself and your child.  You should not blame yourself for what has happened.  Is it possible that you could have behaved differently than you did? Yes, but it might not have had any impact on your wife's actions.She betrayed her marriage vows.  This was a conscious act, and she may well have used Christopher.  Mind you, both are at fault. In the end, it was their decision not any action of yours that lead to their adulterous affair.It seems that your wife is unlikely to return to you, based on the information you have given me.  If you decide to take her back, then I would strongly advise counselling.   If she does not return, you may want to seek counsel from someone you trust, either a member of the clergy, family, or a close friend.  You need not keep your pain inside yourself.If your marriage is at an end, be grateful that you have a loving child.  I have had love come to an end because a woman was unable to make any commitment.  Do not blame yourself for what has happened.  In time, you will be able to move on with your life.  You may well find someone who truly is a soul mate and a true mother to your son.Kyle, you should be commended for not resorting to violence.  As great as your pain was, you realized that violence would have hurt your family.   You rightfully decided that your son was  your first priority.   He will benefit from your wise decision in the years to come.E-mail me if you need someone to talk to in this hard time.  Remember, we all have our own struggles.  Yet we need not struggle alone.Best wishes,William</blockquote>

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