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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Sodalis" data-source="post: 230902" data-attributes="member: 1791">Phoamslinger- that is some cold stuff.. and I tip my hat off to you.In times like this, the last thing you would like to think of is probably the one thing that you will regret.  he is right.  Since your wife is not feeling at fault, she is thinking of more practical things like a divorce, and how to keep your son for child support, and other ways to make her life easier.  While you are thinking about how much it hurts, she is thinking of how much to hurt you.So, I would agree that you should push this aside for a moment and fight for your son.  May God bless you- and know that you can always come here for support.  To paraphrase the teaching of karma, "though the net of judgement has holes in it, it will not let anyone pass..."- she will get her come-uppins.  And you will look on this day as a growth experience, and your future relationships will be stronger because of it.Another thing i learned- is the trinagle of love (not the love triangle) 1)you have to love yourself2)you must have respect for your partner3)you must have affection for your partnerall three must be balanced, or else the relationship will not work.  Right now, you do not have a partner, so you must love yourself.  Do not fall into self pity or blame yourself.  Things that has happened cannot change.  the best you can do is taek it in stride and move on.Best of luck to you- and know that the sun will rise, and that once you have hit rock bottom- the only direction you can go is UP...</blockquote>

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