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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Henry" data-source="post: 151187" data-attributes="member: 158">I really feel for you, Wolf. It is really tough when your love breaks it off with you - DOUBLY so when they've been living with you, because it's almost the same as losing a spouse.Stupid as it may be, I offer a few comforting words:First of all - are your relations completely broken? Is there any talk? or has she made it clear that she has no interest.If this is so, you must absolutely believe, Life does get better. There are life challenges, there are opportunities to find another who will want to share a place in your life. I DON'T WANNA READ ABOUT OUR ILLUSTRIOUS FOUNDER AT THE BOTTOM OF SOME RAVINE IN THE NEWS TOMORROW, ya hear me, Wolf?  <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile    :)"  data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" />You must also remember two things:-From what you said in an earlier thread, it wasn't working for her for quite a long while. Anyone who is in a relationship yet doesn't WANT to be in it, really wasn't in it, if that makes sense.-In my opinion, you have to decide what you REALLY want in your life from this point. It's definitely O.K. to drown those sorrows in some beer, some spending time with the buddies, and blow off as much steam as you can muster, etc., because letting it go is always preferable to holding it in. But eventually, stop, and think where do you want to go. Whether it's to find someone serious, to not date seriously for the time being, or to board up your apartment and live like a hermit in the deserts of Las Vegas, it will come to you. Find what that thing is, and go towards it with all your heart. If your girlfriend was not meant to be, then find what is. NO ONE'S LIFE IS INDELIBLY BOUND TO ANOTHERS', unless they wish it so. There is happiness out there for you. Just be you, and go get it.Carpe Diem, oh Great One!</blockquote>

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