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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Grendel" data-source="post: 151328" data-attributes="member: 1350">I have found that chasing someone who has left you is a bad idea. After a while it becomes a pattern.Demanding an explanation never works, they will tell you if they want otherwise the confontation just makes for bad feelings. If she wants to talk to you she knows where to find you.Do not dwell on it. I'm not saying rush out and look for someone new but it doesn't do you any good to sit and pine for her, or waste time pondering the reasons she is gone. She left for HER reasons, you didnt' leave so you have nothing to consider. Go out and try to have fun. Its not likely that you will forget about her soon, or possibly ever BUT life goes on, try to be a part of it.Shake it off man, she might just need some time and space, give her some breathing room. It will make it easier on both of you.</blockquote>