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<blockquote data-quote="jaerdaph" data-source="post: 151369" data-attributes="member: 3398">I'm really sorry to hear that, Wolfspider. You're doing the right thing by reaching out, though - it helps to talk about it. Try talking to your friends, siblings, and parents as well, face to face or on the phone.My advice based on a similar situation in my life is this - I know the biggest question on your mind right now is &quot;why?&quot;. Don't try to get an answer from her tonight, tomorrow, or even next week. Give your emotions some time to settle down. Also, be prepared not to get an answer at all, even though you deserve one. By giving yourself time before approaching the subject, it makes it that much easier if you don't. Time heals all wounds. You have to keep reminding yourself that you won't feel as bad as you do now in a week, a month, or a year. In a decade, it will be a distant memory.Hang in there, buddy <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile&nbsp; &nbsp; :)"&nbsp; data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="jaerdaph, post: 151369, member: 3398"] I'm really sorry to hear that, Wolfspider. You're doing the right thing by reaching out, though - it helps to talk about it. Try talking to your friends, siblings, and parents as well, face to face or on the phone. My advice based on a similar situation in my life is this - I know the biggest question on your mind right now is "why?". Don't try to get an answer from her tonight, tomorrow, or even next week. Give your emotions some time to settle down. Also, be prepared not to get an answer at all, even though you deserve one. By giving yourself time before approaching the subject, it makes it that much easier if you don't. Time heals all wounds. You have to keep reminding yourself that you won't feel as bad as you do now in a week, a month, or a year. In a decade, it will be a distant memory. Hang in there, buddy :) [/QUOTE]

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